Here is a copy of the program for the memorial held for Jerry in Truro last Wednesday.  I hope you can read it.  Jerry wrote out very specific instructions and selected the poems, the songs, and the readings:

The first poem he selected, by e.e. cummings, dying is fine, is at:

http://www.eliteskills.com/analysis_poetry/dying_is_fine_but_Death_6_by_e_e_cummings_analysis.php

The second one, finis, is at:  http://library.crisischronicles.com/2009/08/12/finis-by-ee-cummings.aspx

The third one, when god lets my body be, which ends the program, is at: http://hellopoetry.com/poem/when-god-lets-my-body-be/